The other end of the scale, IMO, in terms of having problem with someone's parent's meeting is Amy Carter. Depending on the version of the story, Jimmy and Rosalyn met when Rosalyn was either one or three days old and Jimmy was 3 days old. Of course Jimmy isn't going off to the USNA (unless the International Candidates program exists and the CSA is part of it(
https://www.usna.edu/Admissions/Apply/International-Candidates.php )
I'm trying to remember whether it is mentioned in the story for a location (or existance) of the CSMA and a CSNA. (And I wonder what happened to the USNA in this war)
As for the USAFA, the other finalists for the location where Alton, Illinois and Lake Geneva, Wisconsin. Not sure if anything in the story is going to cause a different site than Colorado Springs for the USAFA.