Wow. Just wow. It's like I've wandered into an alternative universe with a different WW2.
https://warwick.ac.uk/fac/soc/economics/staff/mharrison/public/ehr88postprint.pdf
Table 1 would be a good start to your 'broke unlike the Germans' fantasy.
Germany didn't go with graphite because - and this is part of the essence of all this - their scientists weren't very good at scaling up lab physics to mass engineering.
Add this to the noted German desire in WW2 weapons development to make something perfect, as opposed to something good enough, and you get the choice to use heavy water.
Seriously, if you want to understand WW2, stop playing Hearts of Iron 3 - it grossly over-rates German industry. In reality, Germany's industrial base was a bit bigger than the UK, but not by much, about the same size as the USSR's and a lot smaller than that of the US. Additionally, most of the captured territory cost as much to occupy as it produced.