Is there a starters guide to Vicky II? I just got it and damn if the learning curve isn't steep. This is worse than HOI IV learning curve
I've generally found the wiki guides to be mostly useless (when not outright out of date/wrong).
This lp is fairly good at explaining different parts of the game, but is a bit detailed due to how complicated the game actually is
https://lparchive.org/Victoria-II/
Play USA. You can easily ignore industry and learn other systems fairly easily.
USA is a fairly good starting country does have its own issues, namely
--Being a democracy sucks. You literally have no control over your own government
--Event spam: The slave debate gives you a ridiculous amount of events to click through
--The two front scenerio: every game I have played as the US has involved a DOW by the UK when I attack Mexico, unless I have specifically destroyed relations between the two via influence. While this is not hard to do, it is not something a newbie would think of.