Even with a higher accident rate, i think single engine jet pilots still have much higher chances to survive against the opposition.
In light of this, my idea: He-280 is the fist jet fighter to fly so they concentrate on improving and building it AND the HeS30 engine, the Me-262 is cancelled and instead Messerschmitt gets a contract for a single engine jet fighter, the P.1092, small, cheap and able to be built in large numbers. So they get to build build a good number of He-280 and many thousands of P.1092 fighters into 1945. Cancel the Ar-234 apart from perhaps a few recce versions to release engines. Cancel the Me-163 to free resources. Then the next step would be a swept wing M0.9 fighter ordered in mid-1944, could be the He P.1078 or BV P.211 or Me P.1101 or Ta-183.
But like pointed earlier, they really have to have the He-280 working somewhat at least in 1943 and hordes of P.1092 in 1944 in time to oppose the renewed day bomber offensive. But if Hitler still intervene, it's all for nothing.
Oh and yeah, get the Fw-190C in 1943 to protect the jets on take-off and landing.
PS: Alternatively, how about a jet engined Me-163?! The Lippisch P.20 was just such a design from spring 1943. If the airframe maintains almost all the good qualities of the OTL 163, it will be something. Small, cheap and very fast, hordes of these could overwhelm the P-51s and P-47s surely.