But people in Germany don't want to their country to be dismembered, there were two types of nationalism in Germany and most Germans would fall into one of those schools (1848-style liberal unification and militarist Prussian-style unification)
Well 1) that's what happens when you lose wars - people make you do things you don't want to. 2) Some Germans did want to break Germany up - as far as I know only in Bavaria did secessionists have anything like serious numbers though.
Most Germans wanted to keep Germany together, but have more independence for their region within the Reich. Making it more of a loose federation than a Prussian tool.
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