Just wait for Kurdistan to declare independence from Iraq in the referendum, and then it won't get to have any real independence, since Turkey wouldn't think before invading. Problem solved. Then wait for Syria to collapse with the Rojava taking over in the north, where their own Kurdistan is annexed by Turkey, and then have the West take a strike at Iran, and you should hopefully have a fully Turkish-owned Kurdistan.
Oh, I see. Equals. Ha, good joke there friend. On wait, you're serious? Really? Well, you know who else were equals? The Armenians, Greeks, and Assyrians, if you know what I mean. Erdogan will just wait for a WW3 to break out and then Enver Pasha can be resurrected for a party up in Gaziantep.