I would also say it's part of basic human nature to look for easy solutions to complex problems - If the Japanese had only bombed the fuel tanks, if the Germans had only taken Moscow, if the USAAF could have taken out the oilfields at Ploesti, if Johnson had only let the USAF bomb everything they wanted to in North Vietnam, if I was only smarter, taller, and better looking...
There's nothing in "basic human nature" that causes an average person to suppose that the moment events go ahistorical that the outcome will be a highly improbable one, such as the USN losing the war or Kido Butai having hundreds of aircraft shot down. This type of heated insistence on extreme outcomes is the realm of dramatists and story tellers. When Kimmel thought of the potential of a third wave, he wasn't thinking the USN could lose the war. He was thinking that he might suffer addition damage, maybe lose the Enterprise. When Nagumo declined to send it, he wasnt' thinking he'd lose 50 or 100 planes shot down, he was thinking he might lose another 20 and that the law of diminishing returns was in play. They were thinking of AVERAGE results, not nonsensical off the charts jingoist outcomes.