robertp6165 said:I think you confuse good manners with friendliness. The Irish are a notoriously hospitable and friendly people in general. But that doesn't mean that, inside where it counts, they don't hate you. Bear in mind I have only the experience of Irish-Americans to guide me, never having been to Ireland myself (more's the pity). But my family is predominently Scots and Irish, and I can tell you, my grandparents...who were by that time fifth and sixth generation Americans...regularly cursed the "bloody English." The hatred had been passed down that many generations.
But that did not make them impolite people when they actually met an Englishman in person.
err....no.
The only Irish who hate the English are the stupid misguided right wing types who are on a par with British German haing sun readers.
Irish Americans are not Irish, they are a totally different breed who have been away from Ireland a long time and have no right to speak for the Irish. I have heard they do have a irrational hatred for the English which does seem to be a crazy misguided thing due to a lack of knowledge about the actual history. i.e. they seem to believe Northern Ireland is under the occupation of the evil UK and everyone in Ulster is valiantly struggling to have a united Eire.