1) I'm not sure it would take "a lot" to destroy it. Artillery is pretty potent.
2) "a back compartment". Which means what? How are you placing it relative to the guns and so forth?
3) A "tender" would be terribly vulnerable, not to mention something else to be dragged around - meanwhile putting it in "another compartment" raises the question in #2.
You don't have a lot of space to work with here.
1) Yes, but you'll have to draw a good amount of enemy fire away from what's important-the infantry-in order to damage/destroy the thing. If you've got artillery focusing on fending off these behemoths, then what's shooting at the attacking infantry and cavalry? Maybe the enemy infantry or cavalry, but when that's not enough, and you have more than one armored landcruiser bearing down on the enemy, they will probably be forced to ignore one target to take out the other, buying you the opportunity to take them out. Also, shock factor might be a big thing with these armored vehicles.
2) Probably behind the guns and crew area; the coal would perhaps go in bunkers attached to the side (or even stored in a bin between the screws), and the water would be stored in a similar manner, I would imagine.