How Can Sweden and Prussia Form a Dynastic Union?

Realistically, since the first option may be a bit flawed depending on how determined Kristina of Sweden refuses to marry, would a marriage between Ulrika Eleonora or Hdvig Sophia to Frederick Wilhelm I of Prussia in 1710 to 1713 be more realistic that can also go along with a "War of the Swedish Succession"?
 
If Gustav II Adolf lives longer, I doubt Kristina would convert. And he can make her marry, as well. In 1642, Brandenbrug would be the junior party, and I suspect the Swedish council would demand that any children be raised in Sweden - in fact, that might be the only way to placate the peasants in the Riksdag.
 
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