This is probably the most even handed thread I have seen!
I would have to agree that Stalin's response is important in knowing the PODs. It is unlikely that before winter 42 the Rhzev counteroffensive from the Soviets and a later Nordlicht on the German side are called off. FUrther, I do not think Stalin would be throwing premature counter-attacks against Stalingrad before the winter. Sure, it makes for a good German wank, but the city only took on importance as the street-fighting began which would not occur ITTL.
So, IMHO, Uranus and the other planet-operations against Leningrad and Rhzev go off in November. With AGN not stripped bare to reinforce Stalingrad, any counter-attack against Leningrad fails and the city falls/stays in German hands. The Germans hold at Rhzev. The case down south is more interesting.
Without Hitler's meddling, Army Group A goes straight for Tblisi before Autumn and not the black sea ports. The Germans will take the city, and with both the Volga and Tblisi cut off, it becomes difficult logistically for the Soviets to build up a counter attack against the Germans south of Stalingrad. How will they move the men and material for a counteroffensive, especially when what little they move will be for the defense of Grozny and then Baku? Further, the riversides of the Volga were tall cliffs. This makes them very defensible.
More likely, ITTL Uranus is likely a frontal assault against the Romanians, Italians, and Hungarians in the north--a single pincer towards Rostov. Ironically, because the Germans do not have Manstein and extra men committed as IOTL and rather they are near Leningrad, the offensive is likely successful and forces a massive German withdrawal from Stalingrad in horrible winter conditions to prevent being cut off. So, the Germans withdraw from all of their gains other than Kerch, but they withdraw in good order to Rostov. Being a huge frontal assault, the Soviets will lack the ability to exact the casualties to cause a collapse in the south.
So, the Germans enter 1943 with a less desperate man-power situation having experienced no major losses in any sector. Plus, they did not lose tons of equipment in their withdrawal. SOviet losses in Leningrad are severe , but their losses on all other fronts are roughly similar. This puts the USSR in a much better position than one may otherwise think. The Germans are unlikely to withdraw from Rhzev and straighten out their lines, after all, with the fall of Leningrad they can reinforce this sector.
Knowing that Stalin had to be convinced not to attack before Kursk with overwhelming force, ITTL he won't be dissuaded by Zhukov. In May 1943 Stalin will throw a huge amount of men into pinching off AGC. By 1943, the Soviet colossus starts becoming so large, with all of its reserve armies, that the fight in the center will be the nastiest the world have ever seen--worse than Kursk IOTL, but with the Germans on the defensive. Just think of all of those Panthers, Tigers and Elefants being used defensively instead of breaking down on their way to the starting line. The German heavy tanks will be used in a fashion that their massive weights (and lack of machine gun in the Elefant's case) that would be conducive to their success.
Personally, I think the Germans would have to withdraw, even with 500,000 more men committed to the center after Leningrad and huge losses taken on by the Soviets. In all probability, the Germans would be building up again in the south for a blue-redo, and the tyranny of numbers will force Model to withdraw. The losses will be horrific for the Russians and I do think that the Germans avoid a mass encirclement--this won't be a Bagration 43.
At this point, the Manstein has to be shut down as he will still wants to attack in the south, even as the German situation in the middle is crumbling and the Wallies are landing in Italy. So, the Germans have no major attacks in 1943, though there might be a backhand blow as the Russians probably throw a local attack towards Kharkov which I still think gets cut off ITTL.
By the end of 43, Stalin shot his bolt. He does not have Ukraine and though he regained territory in the center, with the loss of Leningrad and without recapturing Ukraine he has a huge manpower and food drain ITTL. Stalin cannot feed and man the armies to the same extent ITTL, so the Russian army in 1944 won't be a juggernaut that can take the fight to Germany. Stalin will sit, content that the Germans are too overstretched building up in France and Italy to pull off any major operations. After the invasion of France, a smaller Bagration-like operation will occur, perhaps an attack against Ukraine as well. Ukraine ITTL will be interesting, as the Germans would have conscripted a fair amount of Ukrainians to both serve in France and fight in Ukraine. As for the Baltic states and Finland, they can very well hold out until the end of the war, as I see resurgent Russia more concerend with Ukraine and getting to Poland. I doubt they would attack the Balts and Finland, as man-for-man they will be much more defensible. The war ends with the Wallies at Berlin, but the German collapse in the east will be very real as the Germans are forced to strip the front bare to fight the wallies. Wallied casualties will be horrific, as they will get their own taste of eastern0front style fighting.