The thing is, it doesnt work well theologically.
If you have no choice but to accept God, it means accepting God is meaningless.
There's an image in CS Lewis, from the Great Divorce i think, where he proposes that Heaven and Hell could be the same place. Those who open themselves to God, bathe in his radiance, while those who cling to dark bits of sin are burned by the actinic radiance of the same light.
It's probably not accurate, but it is a hugely powerful idea for considering the concepts of Heaven and Hell, and how it fits with a loving God.
Some people simply wont accept God's love, no matter what, and, for them, breaking their will and forcing them into Heaven would be more wrong.
Do understand that while I believe in Heaven, and suspect Hell exists, I am absolutely sure that the 'classical' ideas of people with harps on clouds vs people in boiling pitch being stabbed by demons are wrong, wrong, wrong.