Well, alll these good reviews convinced me to splurge and get the game. I decided for my first game to play the old standby Lombardia and the d'Este dynasty.
Well, naturally, I started things off by betrothing young Ugo d'Este to Mathilda of Toscana. This being largely my 'get to know things' game, I'll admit not much happened for the rest of Azzo d'Este's reign. Except that Fulco tried to assassinate his brother, and got caught. Which is how I discovered that if you execute family, you get the 'Kinslayer' trait. Which is nice to know.
So, Azzo died, and Ugo took his place. By this time, Mathilda had died, and their son, Cataldo was the Duke of Toscana. My plan to unite Italy under my rule was proceeding apace. And then Cataldo turned sixteen and wound up speeding it up by declaring war on his father. Said war ended rather quickly when Ugo took an incapacitating blow to the head and died a few months later.
I like to think I'm getting a better grasp of things, mind you. Because Cataldo is now King of Italy.