For someone who's Israeli, you have a rather questionable grasp of the history of that region.
Aside from the preposterous idea that the Six Day War was Israel's fault, i think the idea that Israel "lost" the Yom Kippur War is a bit of a stretch, considering that the Arabs failed to achieve any of their goals and the Israelis had to be warned by the US not to take any additional land.
I don't recall saying the Six Day War was Israel's fault, I just said we started it. That war's start is actual a military operation that fills Israeli military planners with pride to this very day; indeed, it was a remarkable operation.
The Yom Kippur War is the single factor that got Israel to return the Sinai to Egypt, having been persistant on keeping it throughout the previous 6 years. Egypt, Israel's enemy, achieved its primary (and perhaps only) objective by getting the Sinai back. I'm not sure whats a better definition for "victory".
That, being said, when you keep insisting that the "Palestinian Arabs" had no homeland to go to and no one to help them unlike the Sephardi Jews, you seem to be ignoring on glaring fact.
Jordan had been considered "Palestine" or at least part of Palestine prior to 1922, barely two decades befor the 1948 War. Certainly the "Palestinian Arabs" had a closer connection to the "Palestinians" of Jordan than the Sephardi Jews had with the Ashenazi Jews of the Yishuv.
Jordan, my friend, is the only country that accepted said refugees
as citizens. The problems, as I consistently said, lie in Egyptian-held Gaza Strip and in Lebanon.
Bernard Lewis once noted that what was really sad about 1948 is that the refugee problem shouldn't have been that hard to settle. During the Greco-Turkish wars of the WWI era much, much larger numbers of refugees were created on both sides of the conflict. IIRC it was roughly 1-2 million Greeks and an equal number of Turks. Also, while I can't remember the exact figure, I think the creation of Pakistan caused around 15-20 million refugees.
By contrast, the Palestinian refugees numbered about 750,000, but while the Greeks, Turks, Hindus, and Pakistani Muslims are now no longer refugees, 60 years later and the Palestinians are still.
Lewis cracked that he suspected that the UN's involvement in 1948, but not in the other two crisises was part of the explanation.
The situation is indeed complicated. The point is, for the Turks and Greeks, Hindus, and Muslims there was a country to accept them. The Palestinians had no such place, except maybe Jordan, which had fantasies to annex anything between the river and the sea once the Jews are gone (to this day Jordan is a poorer place then any Arab slum in Israel).
That's my point. The Israeli-Palestinian conflict is not some simple national or territorial dispute. The problem is deeper - there are two peoples, each demanding self-determination, but only one country. That's the problem.