There have been some studies that the majority of women would prefer more children in Europe, and presumably in developed countries overall (actually confirmed now that I look at the OCED link) - although conversely this is reversed in less developed countries. Yale's demographic series had a session talking about them, using Bolivia as an example. In Bolivia women have more children than they desire, in Europe they have less than they desire, nobody is happy as par usual.
http://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tan...and-the-u-s-but-the-desire-for-kids-does-not/
http://www.oecd.org/els/soc/SF_2_2_Ideal_and_actual_number_of_children.pdf
So in a sense assisting women in being able to have more children - in developed nations - is helping them fulfill out their ideals. On the other hand they may be… not lying, but not distinguishing between their idealized society structure and their personal desires. Which could easily be the case, I imagine people are taught certain notions about how many children they're
supposed to have, 2 being the general number and in some cases 3, but then they don't actually intend to apply that to themselves even if they had the opportunity. However presuming their real intents reflect their desires then it would indicate that there are obstacles in their way of fertility, and removing these would enable higher birth rates that are in fact desired by the developed countries.