The problem with an American Dutch war is that the Netherlands never would be so stupid to go to war with America, since the Americans could easily beat the Netherlands, the Netherlands has nothing America wants and the relationship between the Netherlands and America has always been pretty good.
The best way for the Netherlands and the USA to go to war would if both are involved in a bigger war and the only war I can think of is the First world war, if for example the Dutch are stupid enough to join the Germans (unlikely) or if Britain decides to attack the Netherlands (which they were planning at one point, but decided against it).