The only way you get the US to be stalemated is if Japan successfully gets the Bomb and an appropriate delivery vehicle or if their or Germany's bioweapons research creates a vastly more successful and weaponized disease than OTL, especially something like rinderpest or foot and mouth disease. The biggest "deep risk" to the isolated Continent in WWII is something like this. Of course, this is how you ensure Japanese is only spoken in Hell.
Basically, you have to have some massive internal crisis that fractures the nation's political will or Japan gets a proper deterrent somehow and ahead of everyone else. Anything else, and post-PH, you get the same fate. If they only attacked the Philippines naval and air military facilities, with a declaration of war it'd be so much harder to build the kind of gritty resolve to "crush the Jap" there was IOTL. But, on the other hand, Japan is much easier to crush by strangulation via blockades.