A) I agree with M79 on a fully victorious CSA's negotiations for territory - Missouri above the Missouri River was settled by northerners, while below was 'Little Dixie', a Southron-settled area one can see clearly on a map of American English dialects and existing to take up all the state south of the river. Also, St. Louis by the time of the Civil War was pretty damn pro-Southron, and I can provide a link saying as such. It will likely stay CSA while Kansas City is made Union.
B) Further, all slave states seceding with this presumably-victorious CSA would embolden the New Mexico and Indian Territories into throwing their lot entirely with the Southrons, as well as perhaps slightly more men to secure the territory when they send in a force to take it. The Anglos in them were mostly from the South anyways.
C) I also agree Wheeling will go to the Union as perhaps part of Pennsylvania. It really wasn't settled by Virginians (both West and Regular type).
D) However, as a native Delawarean, I assure you that it was a northern state that happened to somehow still have slavery. Its slave-to-free ratio was heavily in favor of free, it was tied to Philadelphia by economy, culture, and ethnicity, (most of its Anglo population having moved in from Quaker Pennsylvania during colonial times), and most of the population lived up north by Philadelphia.
It will stay Union.
To wit:
-Missouri south of the MO River (with St. Louis) goes to the Southland, above it (with Kansas City) goes to the USA.
-Wheeling will become a Union city.
-All of Indian and New Mexico Territory will be claimed by the CSA.
-Delaware will stay pro-Union.
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...of course, this presumes the CSA is really, really lucky and victorious early.
But all slave states seceding will embolden the Southrons to take all American lands they've traditionally settled in, including the midwestern states/territories (MO and Indian Territory) and the Southwest (all New Mexico Territory). Having New Mexico and Indian Territory will mean the 37th parallel is most of their border, which is very close to the traditional 36'30''. It will also mean the Missouri and Ohio River as natural borders till the also-traditional Mason-Dixon line.
As a final note, the ever-reliable Wikipedia claims the Confederacy wished to make Washington DC their capital and to secure Maryland's support for the Confederates. Make of that what you will.