For the Netherlands:
Surinam easily, as it was almost forced to become independent ad more than 1/3 of the people living there moved to the Netherlands.
Dutch New Guinea, if the Netherlands would have kept it (possible with international support, as they most certainly didn't want to become part of Indonesia, some Papuans still blame the Dutch for selling them out to Indonesia), it most likely would have gotten the same status as the Dutch antilles have now. They were on route for independence, but I think Dutch money will outweigh their willingness for independence.
The Maluku islands (or at least the southern islands), just like New Guinea they did not want to become part of Indonesia and actively supported the Dutch colonial government during the Indonesian war of independence (and just like the Papuans they actively blame the Dutch for selling them out to Indonesia). They wanted to become independent too, but you need a very different international reaction to the Indonesian war for independence to get it. Maybe the USA forces some referenda, instead of supporting Indonesia. The Maluku islands (and New Guinea) remain in Dutch hands, but when it is time for them to become an independent nation, they decide to remain Dutch partly for Dutch money, but probably also for protection against Indonesia.